A girls guide to dating a geek online
For this type of dating app, pictures are the only thing that matters.
A friend with a good picture gets about 20 matches a day on Tinder, but had almost no matches before he fixed his pictures.
Only meet up with people after you’re comfortable and make sure the meeting is at a public place.
Make sure at least one trusted friend knows what you’re doing and set up a check in system.
Moreover, while nerd-dom has become mainstream (even cool), it didn’t used to be, and many a nerd grew up suffering at the hands of dumb guys or b*tchy girls. Yeah, it’s a bit cheesy, but there’s a reason this franchise was so amazingly popular: it has memorable characters (including a strong woman), lots of good humor, and a cosmic theme that appeals to everyone. I have gotten non-nerd friends (male and female) hooked on BSG.
This shows that you read her profile, demonstrates unique effort, and helps differentiate you from countless people who just message “Hi”.
In terms of effort, a well crafted message takes more effort than an insulting generic message but should result in higher response rate.
Let your friend know that you’ll check in within a certain time, and what to do if you don’t.
But after a few dates, you begin to realize he’s not like the other guys you’ve dated.As a scientist and closet nerd, I’ve known my share of nerdy men. When some women date nerds, they tend to focus on the “negative” side of his nerd-dom (e.g. You may have different interests, but one way to spend quality time with your nerdy guy is to watch sci-fi movies or TV shows that also appeal to female non-nerds. Immensely popular, Game of Thrones chronicles seven noble families fighting for control of a mythical land. Based on a trilogy of books, the first Hunger Games movie was a big success and they’re in the process of making the second.